Listening to The Today Programme this morning I was struck by the way language is used to influence one’s impression. In an item on young Chinese homosexuals who deceive their parents by going through a sham marriage ceremony between a male and a female homosexual, the phrase ‘gay and lesbian’ was used constantly. Not once did I hear the word ‘homosexual’.
It reminded me of the way the feminist movement used the term ‘single mother’ to blur the distinction between unmarried mothers and mothers who were divorced. This was done to confuse antipathy to the former with sympathy for the latter. As time passed, the word ‘mother’ was dropped to favour ‘single parent’, which has in turn been dropped for ‘lone parent’.
This was no accident, but a deliberate manipulation through language. It was the feminists who told us how important language was to our impressions, hence the suffix ‘man’ was dropped from numerous previously used titles. That this was no accident is shown by the conscious, sometimes silly, avoidance of the suffix. So, a few weeks ago Peter Tatchel spoke on radio of a ‘clergyperson’, while someone else used the term ‘dustpersons’. The word ‘pathetic’ comes to mind.

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